This TedTalk is one of my all time favorites.  Jackson Katz shows how the use of language can make such a huge difference in how we experience women and violence.  He also calls on men to take up the cause, because, as he tells it, violence against women is not a women's issue - it's a men's issue.  

https://www.ted.com/talks/jackson_katz_violence_against_women_it_s_a_men_s_issue?utm_campaign=tedspread&utm_medium=referral&utm_source=tedcomshare